One of the most asked questions lately has been “How is the adjustment going from one to two kids?” Or “How are y’all doing being parents of two?” My answer most likely depends on the day you ask me. Being a mom of a toddler and newborn really is a whole new level of cray. 😜 Most of the time you can find me in sweats or pajamas trying to keep Audrey Grace from “feeding” her little brother, smothering him with hugs and kisses (literally), hoping to make it to nap time in one piece, cleaning up after the hurricane that is KIDS in the home. LOL! I try to remind myself of the things I learned as a new mom to Audrey Grace and make the most of each day. I am back in action teaching fitness classes and teaching dance, so I am thankful for great sitters to watch my minions while I’m working. I’m trying to strike a balance trying to be a good wife, mom, teacher, and friend! Right now I’m working to get John William on a good routine during the day and feel like we are turning the corner as far as night time sleep goes.
Tyler and I are enjoying the fun and chaos but feel like we are in a “just do the best you can” and sometimes feel pretty spent at the end of the day. Just like in life, some days are harder than others. I know we are in the thick of it right now as we have many sleepless nights, toddler melt downs, and ever changing busy schedules to keep straight. I’m trying to soak in the moments and find the positive when the day gets overwhelming or just plain hard. It may seem like I’m complaining, but I’m really just trying to be transparent with you as I know there are others who are probably feeling the exact same way. I’m beyond thrilled that Audrey Grace will grow up having a little brother because I know how rewarding it was for me grow up with siblings.
As we all adjust to having a new baby in the home, I think about how blessed we are to have a house full of love and joy. I pray continually that I will parent with grace and patience. It’s a beautiful but crazy season we are in, so it’s important to be thankful, rely on the Lord for strength and joy, and enjoy the ride. I’ve really enjoyed listening to these talks as a resource for positive parenting and discipline. Give it a listen if you need some guidance in the parenting department (don’t we all!) It has been really encouraging with lots of practical help and wise guidance. I truly do feel blessed to be a mom and I know that God has entrusted us with these precious souls to raise.
It’s always so worth it when we see a glimpse of those first smiles and giggles, big developments like riding a tricycle independently, or stringing together three or four word sentences. Those moments of cuddles, singing together or dancing to disney songs in the kitchen make it all worth it. As I am typing this, my sweet girl literally just climbed up in my lap and said “I love you so much, mommy.” These are the moments that make my heart full!!
Hope you enjoy these precious moments captured by my #instahusband. 🙂 My sweet baby girl insisted to wear a big floppy hat like mommy for some pics! She enjoyed wearing my hat, but found it even more fun to throw it like a frisbee. Haha! She is a mess. 😉 There’s nothing better than coordinating with my dress loving lady. I’ll be happy to be all matchy matchy with her as long as she’ll let me! Both of our outfits are from my favorite online shop Pink Blush. With this new change in weather, I went on the hunt for a top that wasn’t to heavy (it’s still so hot in the afternoons) but that would coordinate with my favorite little fashionista. You can shop my top here.
It’s the perfect length, super soft ribbed knit, and THE NECKLINE? In love! I know this will be one of my “go-to” tops this fall. They also have a non-maternity womens section and adorable kids line you can find here.
How about you? Where are you at in this crazy journey? Surviving or thriving… or a bit of both? Whatever season of life your currently in, I pray we will rely on the Lord for strength and guidance as we give our best to be who we were called to be. Let’s remember to enjoy the ride, cherish the moments, give yourself grace in the thick of the craziness.
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